Can you make someone love you?
Is it love when you know that you found the one that you want to spend the rest of your life with?
Or is just the beginning of something that will hopefully grow into full blown love?
Do we know when love is there or do we just hope that the love we give is returned?
Does it matter what they look like to everyone else or will what you thought was love be abandoned due to peer pressure?
If you really are in love do your eyes stray more than just for a glance?
Does love change your entire outlook on life?
When you are with the one you love do you think about when they will leave or do you wish the moment never ends?
Do you have what it takes to be in love and make it work? (that means good, bad, low and high times)
If you are away from each other only for a small increment of time are you missing them and constantly thinking of them?
Do you ever think that maybe this is not the right one?
Is it love when you know that you found the one that you want to spend the rest of your life with?
Or is just the beginning of something that will hopefully grow into full blown love?
Do we know when love is there or do we just hope that the love we give is returned?
Does it matter what they look like to everyone else or will what you thought was love be abandoned due to peer pressure?
If you really are in love do your eyes stray more than just for a glance?
Does love change your entire outlook on life?
When you are with the one you love do you think about when they will leave or do you wish the moment never ends?
Do you have what it takes to be in love and make it work? (that means good, bad, low and high times)
If you are away from each other only for a small increment of time are you missing them and constantly thinking of them?
Do you ever think that maybe this is not the right one?
These are all questions at some point in time you may ask your self or think of when you are just trying to figure out what it is you have or want. No one said love was easy and you need to realize that it doesn't hold everything together you and the person you are with are the glue and that means you have to work together to stick together. Love is like a house it is built on a foundation but at times it needs small repairs sometimes major renovations. The key I have found is small simple things mean a lot well at least to me they do... The things I do is make time for just me and the person I am with which means I have cooked dinner and paired it with some nice wine and a simple dessert. Then we watch a movie or play a board game or perhaps I pack a picnic and we go to the park or down to a place that is special for the both of us. You can also do things more romantic to jazz it up a bit like flowers and chocolates sent to the job, or a day get away to somewhere you have planned out and you have reservations at a nice Suite and Restaurant. So tell me what you think about this subject and if you have come up with some good ideas to keep it fresh in the arena of....
LOVE
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Love is as simple as it is complicated. It can drive a sane person crazy and make a crazy person sane. Love is a constant work in progress, never a finished produce. Like you, it's the small simple things that matter most to me. You can make a phone call or send a text message to say “good morning”, “good night”, “I miss you”, “I love you”, or “how's your day”. A written letter or a card sent off in the mail or placed in the pocket of their favorite jeans or jacket. You can add a little "ummp" to it by spraying your favorite cologne or perfume on the card or letter. You can also leave little messages on yellow post-it notes and post them in areas of the house where that someone special can find them. Right before they get home from work, you can draw them a hot bath and place candles around the tub, add rose pedals or bubbles in the water with some smooth jazz playing in the background to help them relax and forget about the troubles of the day. I could go on and on but I want to give everybody else a chance to add something to the mix. :)
-D
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