Monday, March 21, 2005

I LOVE YOU.......

Three of the most powerful, miss used and abused words in the world. How can those three small words do so much? To think that without out one another they are harmless. But when you say I love you to someone that means that you are committed and would not doing anything grimey to hurt that person. No playing on the side giving your number to meaningless people, you know that in the end all this does is cause drama. You let these feelings control your emotions, some people say they love you and really just say I love you, because they think that is what you want to hear. Maybe, they say it to try to keep you, knowing they really don't love you. Despite the notion that love is all you need, you really need to be loved you can love all day, but at the end of the day, is the love being returned? Can you go on saying those words, thinking you mean them but not really? Is love in the world a game or is there still people out there that truly know what love is and understand that love is work and that you have to put all efforts forward, not half ass. You can not fully love some one if you have prior engagements. Leave the drama alone, trust is there and earned, but is taken when you act a fool. Don't leave room for error, make sure they know you care. It's not fun to be hurt, specially when you find out the others dirt. Damn, the things that happen to us in our lives is not always the best. Make sure that you are never scared to live and love, when you do it, do it all out don't hold back. Jealousy is a hard thing to hide, fight or deal with, everyone has it, how do you deal with it. I act very different then others and some might think that it is childish or crazy but the way I deal with my problems is to not talk when I am mad but to talk later when I am level headed. Nothing is resolved when you yell and scream or argue about something. If you tell someone that you love them then mean it don't just say it to hear it. I know when I have said it the few times I have always meant it, funny I never told Q I loved him, I told him I had love for him, never loved him the way I love someone now. Never thought that love would be like this, now I know it takes work and patience I knew part of that but now I know. Think about everything you say everyday and if you really do love that special someone you can whole heartedly say......

I LOVE YOU........

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Once again you've out done yourself. A funny thing is you were right on point with my thoughts this morning. Love is strange and it isn't easy dealing with sometimes. I think you said it best in your 03 March entry entitled “Love” when you said love has its flaws, can make you crazy, and down right off da chain. Right now love has me watching my actions and being mindful of the company I keep because the last thing I want to do is to have that love threatened over what someone perceived or heard. Stuff that’s not even there. Keep the knowledge rolling ma. I see ya.

Your 5 and 6,

-CB

Anonymous said...

Love for me has been both joy and pain...I think with my heart most of the time, but of late my heart has led me down a path that I have hurt many people...So for those of you that are in Love, REALLY IN LOVE, HONOR and TREASURE IT because if you do not, it can fade away with the wind or a few words...Love without communication is useless so communicate with your Lover or those you say you Love, you can say it but if the two of you are not feeling it, it does not exist...I have to say this to the gentlemen,two wise women once told me, the little things count...So to the Gentlemen do not let Love pass you by, if you mean it say it, if not, do not play with it...

Smoke Dogg

Anonymous said...

Its so true! I myself have missed used those three words. It has been one of the biggest mistakes that I have done in my life. Like always my relations start with love but sometimes that just seems to change.Its like all relationships. But I guess I still have a lot to explore and live in life. I can say that I actually haven't really fallen in love. For that reason when I get "the words" I usually dont respond with them because I dont want to miss use them. But I have felt love my for certain relationships but then I realize that its not what I want to move along in life. But I sure have lots of Love for my family and friends. But I think that this time I have felt Love for someone. I sure hope that things work out between us. But hey if it doesn't its for a reason. Love ya Boggie pal! Its all about the NYC!

Yo bud
Giggles